Is The Church Important? Belonging vs Attending

All In The Family

Belonging to a church is more than just attending a service—it’s about becoming part of a family. In Galatians 6:10, Paul encourages us to do good “especially to those who belong to the family of believers.” That word—belong—carries significance. It suggests intimacy, connection, and commitment. When we belong, we are not simply welcomed—we are truly wanted.

Hebrews 10:24–25 encourages us to motivate one another toward love and good deeds. It’s a call to act, not to be isolated. The early church didn’t just gather once a week; they shared meals, supported each other, and worshiped together every day. In today’s world, that might mean joining a small group, serving on a ministry team, or helping someone in need.

Romans 12:9–16 provides a clear picture of what this sense of belonging looks like. Love must be genuine. We celebrate together, grieve together, and practice radical hospitality. This kind of love isn’t fake or forced—it’s agape love: the kind that’s sacrificial and honest.

Sadly, many have walked away from churches not because of theology, but due to a lack of warmth. They will travel great distances and rearrange their lives to experience real love. However, if they’re met with judgment or indifference, they’ll quickly withdraw.

To belong is to be known and still accepted. It’s to give your time, resources, and heart—not just your attendance. It means you matter—and you help others feel like they matter too.

”So ask yourself: Where do you worship in spirit and truth? What prevents you from authentic worship? And how might God be inviting you to move from simply attending church to truly belonging?

Love your neighbor as yourself
— Matthew 22:39

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Beecher Wilhelm

Beecher Wilhelm brings a wealth of financial wisdom as a retired credit manager with an MBA from Syracuse University—but his impact doesn’t stop there. As a dynamic small group leader at his local church and a guest writer for Connect Home Life, Beecher combines faith and experience to inspire others. Whether he’s breaking a sweat at the gym, sharing laughs with family and friends, or discovering hidden gem eateries, Beecher lives life with purpose and passion.

To hear Beecher tell it: “I’m not a Bible scholar. Most days, I feel like I’m one step behind the groups I lead. But I show up—because grace showed up for me. I’m a recovering imposter, sinner saved by grace, still learning where the books of the Bible are. What I do know is this: Jesus uses the unqualified to reach the overlooked. So I open the door, make space for the unheard and unsure, and trust that when we show up with compassion, He does the rest. If you’ve ever felt unseen or unworthy, you’re exactly who I’m here for. Let’s figure it out together.”

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